…expecting other people to make you happy…
…Thing is I’m not saying you shouldn’t feel valued at work.
But feel like if that’s the basis of you define how good your company is, it should be a testament of your character.
You are one of those who have an entitlement mentality.
Expecting other people to make you happy.
And if they don’t, you throw your toys out the cot.
Ranting about how unfair life is, and not taking 100% responsibility of your life.
Everybody else must change before you can change kinda deal.
And that keeps on the back foot.
Because you are waiting for something you don’t totally have control over to change before you are happy.
But if you get your shit in order, making sure that you come first and not depending on others to validate you, I think that gives you power.
You gotta take care of you first, because should you lose your job, the job you identify and associate your worthy by, what then?
Guard against that shit is all I’m saying.
Know your worth.
I love you.
Please forgive me.