How Was Your Average, Perfect Day?

I read a beautiful blog post, shared by my team leader in the work group Whatsapp (how I despise these groups) titled The Perfect Average Day.

Like the English saying, I walked a mile in her shoes.

Or was it her high heels.

It was relatable.

Well written.

I loved it.

But some of my work colleagues didn’t.

Commenting about how she should use the opportunities within her company to better her living conditions.

To better HER perfect, average day.

Another commented about how there’s nothing special about her day since there are others who go through worse.

Another commented on what kind of response did the writer want? Compassion?

In the back of mind I thought, guys…it’s not a competition.

It’s not about compassion.

Why the hostility?

Is it shame, or embarrassment?

Having some parts of your life displayed like that for all to see, maybe making you feel intimidated?

Or was it because it was a woman who wrote that story?

Did she struck a cord maybe?

This was because I believed she wrote that just to share a part of her life with a receptive audience.

Just because she writes and that’s what writers do.

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No hidden agendas.

Maybe that’s the writer in me talking.

Maybe they are acting this way because it’s one of those photos that don’t make it to their Instagrams.

Because it has no filter.

Too real.

In the world of the Internet, there is no such thing as over sharing.

So instead of pointing out their insecurities, I decided to blog about it here.

I do my best to avoid an argument.

It’s like what this book I’m re-reading says,

“A man convinced against his will is of the same opinion still.”
How To Make Friends and Influence People. 

I’m sorry.

Please forgive me.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musa

PS. By the way here’s the link to the blog I’m talking about http://conversationswithaesha.blogspot.co.za/2017/04/the-perfect-average-day.html?m=0

“Let the dead bury their own dead…”

Just want to extend on my Tumblr that the saying that goes “it gets easier with time,”… I don’t know about that hey.

The sting is still there, but maybe not as loud as before.

It’s like sand running through your hands.

She was alive…

…Then she wasn’t.

Followed by my friend’s father.

Then my work colleague.

Death was on a roll that’s for sure.

I think I don’t want to admit that it does get better with time.

Maybe because feeling the pain is evidence that it was real.

Her being with us, being with me.

But eventually there’s going to come a time when I will question whether this pain makes sense any more.

Or if it’s denying me the joy I could be experiencing right now.

But not right now.

~ Musa

PS: But one day I will. Life is too short to be living in the past.

“Don’t Die With Your Music Still In You” ~ @DrWayneWDyer

Just a bit bummed about the passing of the good Dr Wanye Dyer.

But after counseling with my #joy @Phetheni we came to the understanding that he played his part in this world.

And it’s up to us to pay forward his teachings to leave where ever we are better than how we found it.

“Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change.” – Wayne Dyer

I love you.

Thank you.

– Musawenkosi Tshoaele

The Hidden Concept Behind How Other People’s Actions Affect How You Feel

“Mirrors”

“Do you ever find yourself getting frustrated or angry with the actions of others?

Whatever you see when you evaluate other people, is a projection of what is inside of you.

When you find yourself thinking, “I wish she could make a firm decision” it is an indication of your own frustration at not being able to make a decision.

In order to recognize something in others, you must first have it within yourself.

Think about it.

Is there something that makes you particularly angry?

Why?

Look inside yourself for the source of this anger.

Even if you could change the behaviour of others, it would not resolve your feelings.

You are the only one who can change the way you feel. Trying to run away by blaming others will only prolong the problem and make it worse.

The really good news is that this “mirror” has a positive side to it.

The inspiring, uplifting things you see in other people are in you as well.

When you see in others such things as compassion, genius, beauty, caring and affection, you’re seeing a projection of yourself.

You see these things because they are a part of you.

The source of your thoughts and feelings about other people, about things, about situations, is you.

When you see darkness, it is your darkness.

When you see beauty, it is your own beauty.

Grasp this concept, and you can change your world.”

I am expansively grateful to the Universe for effortless delivering to me this article for me to absorb, reflect so to pay it forward & and return it back to the abundant Universe to I am but a physical extension of.

(c) Musa Tshoaele, 2010

I Feel The Need To Go Back To The Spirit

As you read keep in mind that God can never Not Be the Universe, as much as the Universe can never Not Be God. Since God, like the Universe, is all there is.

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I feel like another Conversations with God
, a story told by @_NealeDWalsch about how man should, upon walking out the door, interact with the would as if it is plastic. And can be moulded according to our desires by just simply doing every act with love.

Especially when we don’t feel “loving,” it is then when we should practice the love that is repeated refered to in Conversations with God.

Because that in itself is a Conversations with God
, for the act of “love giving” is a form of a prayer to God wich will then return back to the sender the physical equivalent of the love that was giving.

On face value this could be regarded as crap, especially when you are of the school that God only answers some of your prayers, if any, and should not be expected to give you your heart’s desires.

Because God is a punishing God, you say.

God has made it so that some of us are rich and some poor.

Going against what God has laid down for us is sinful, and therefore for the devil.

That is why we should fear God or else we will go to hell for our sins.

Only the chosen have direct communication to God, because God is over there…and I am here.

If this is the limited God of conditional love – the One who gives free will and yet punishes you for exercising this will freely – then The Complete Conversations with God
is was went for you, maybe even highly so.

It states why mankind is experiencing what it is currently experiencing, and this won’t change until the idea of Who We Are changes.

This “renewing of the mind” would be made easier if we come to know who and what God really is.

And God is love.

Eternal, unconditional, unlimited, abundance, spiritual, never ceasing, without end.

The Alpha and Omega.

It’s about time you knew the truth about your religion – because the Truth will set you free.

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– Musawenkosi Tshoaele

PS. Conversation with God is a threek Book triology, tautology I know, and reference are made to all 3 books. Hence the The Complete Conversations with God recommendation.

“love is all there is.”

"Suffering Will Only Teach You That You Didn’t Have To Suffer In The First Place."

“I learned that no matter how bad things appeared to be, if you choose to change them and if you have a sense of purpose, you can overcome.

It’s in remembering and applying what you’ve already learned that you find the answers to your present problems.”John Harricharan

With that said, learn not to curse your creations – what you are currently experiencing & have experienced are of your own creations*, because it is in cursing them that you are then cursing yourself. And thus find yourself in a negative space, that will from there only produce more negative manifestations.

A Creative Spirit always creates, it is always creating.

Because that is all it is.

Exactly that, Creative.

What this Creative Energy attracts as an effect are creations which, come to think about it, are neither “good” or “bad.”

We – Creative Spirits, living within a physical body – are the ones who say whether one thing is bad because it hurts or whether it’s good because it feels good.

To find out what is true to us we must see to how it feels to us from our soul’s perspective, and not allow our mind to “tell” us how we should be feeling.

We have built in navigational systems that tells us, and at times scream to us through our gut feelings, intuitions, instincts & still small voices that, at one time, where allowed to openly guide us through the first steps we took on this earth but now are silenced even before they speak to us by anything & everything that we could get our “ears” on.

{When was the last time you played make-believe with yourself and had an intensional “out of body” experience, like seeing yourself reading this blog entry as if you’re standing at the corner of the room?

Looking at your posture, facial expressions and hearing your thoughts and feelings, what would you say to yourself in gently guidance, and loving support, & suggest you do to make you feel even better?}

Hence the overly “wonderful” experiences we have come to live with every passing day of our God forsaken lives.

God forsakes nothing.

This is just another of our self loathing creations taught to us by sources of which we have held so highly that they begin to resemble the demi gods they still warn us against worshiping.

I do not have all the answers.

I do, though, have all of MY answers, and I choose not to shove my truth down your throat until you come to accepting them as your own.

What I can do though is show you to the place that can leads to your own Truth.

To point for you that place.

And that place is within.

And when the time comes for you to own, understand, accept and become your Truth, you will come to see that your Truth is the Universal Truth.

Your Truth is intrinsically My Truth.

Because there is only one of us.

Because when I give to you, I give to myself.

When I take from you, I take from myself.

“Do unto others, what you want others to do unto you.”

And when these deeds come from a space of Love, all that you and I can only receive IS Love.

Love is all that Is, and all that Is is made off the stuff we are made off therefore All That Is, is the Love We Are.

We, you & I, are love.

And I love you.

Now do you see why every non-loving act brings to us so much pain, hurt & struggle, amongst others?

Because it’s not who we are.

* If you do not have the open mind to willingly accept this, then you immediately accept life as it is, Appearance Vs. Truth, even though it is said that “for every shadow there is life. For the shadow to be there, life has to also exist.”

The mind is like a missile guiding system, all that it notices and become its reality is were the focus is, and thus will hit it dead on.

Change your focus – through persistently, gently working on programming the mind with this new habit that can only be mastered through practise – and you change your outcomes.

“Listen to you heart and soul in your quiet times and you’ll see how much you remember and how much you really know.”When You Can Walk on Water, Use the Boat

Musawenkosi Tshoaele

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God Wouldn’t Be God If She Came In Only One Form


It’s an amazing movie due to the message i wanted God to tell me intentionally – consciously going to watch a movie with the intention of hearing what God would tell me through it – and how it has brought me into a new level of consciousness that for the to be one I have to be two.

I went through a time when due to resisting a part of me, the old me, which looked at the glass half empty and centering all my energy on this “new” me – the me that I must be in order of this law of attraction I’m blogging about.

See now it’s a known fact, even more so that since I write about it, that what I resist, persist so you can just image how, by me pushing down this part of me I didn’t “like,” this was doing to my mood on a daily basis.

Manic-depressive had nothing me! Lol!

That’s why this has been good to me, a God send, because it helped me hold or start getting back my “high” so to be in complete alignment the good I’m receiving.

Then this movie came to me as a direct message from God, because I was intentionally listening to each and every word as if it came from God.

Then like jam being spread on bread, my heart gave that steamingly refreshing sound of water on a hot pot when She said the words that my soul needed to hear:

For there to be One, I have to be two.

– Musawenkosi Tshoaele