When Death, Time & Love Write Back 

I don’t like movies that make me cry.

Watching Collateral Beauty starring Will Smith had me squinting my eyes.

collateral_beautyHolding my tears back with my eyelids.

It’s been a while since I’ve watched a movie like that.

Evoking so much emotions then throwing me out of wack after it was done with me.

It was Mr. Smith’s best performance to date.

Enjoyed listening to the story behind the scenes on how he also experienced loss during the making of the movie.

How he just went all out in giving it all through the film.

Can’t wait until it’s out on Blu-ray.

It’s worth the watch.

Please forgive me.

I’m sorry.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musa

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Why One of the Sources of Your Pain Could Be Your Attachment to Your Results

“You only lose what you cling to.”
~ Buddha

Getting attached to the results denies you the pleasure of enjoying the journey towards achieving the result.

Chances are that you will never be happy with what you get.

Because you are objective-driven.

Getting that promotion will not be enough.

Getting that contract will not be enough.

Getting that car or that house or that certificate or that deal will not be enough.

Because you are attached to the results.

Who knows, maybe that’s why it’s taking you so long to achieve the things you want…because in you working towards them you are projecting emotions of the lack of not having the thing.

When you could be focused on enjoying the process of achievement with this good feeling energy that pulls in the things that you want, since in this case you would be projecting emotions of abundance.

“Success is the progressive realization of a worthy ideal.”
~ Earl Nightingale

Feelings of Lack repels.

Feelings of Abundance attracts.

I’m sorry with I have offered you in any way.

If I have, please find it in your heart to forgive me.

Thank you for taking the time to scan through this article.

And for that, and for the other things you do, I love you.

Yes, unconditionally ☺

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

The Magical Power Of “Thank You” In Your Life Heals All Wounds

What I love about Thank You Power by Deborah Norville was the exercises she had within her chapters that allowed the reader to put what she calls “Thank You Power” (a state of gratitude that instils fulfilment, purpose & other joyful emotions within people’s hearts, amongst other limitless uplifting benefits) to the test.

One of them entailed writing out, on a blank piece of paper, 3 new things every day, that you are grateful for, and why.

That this:

1. Thank you ___________________________________________________________ because

_______________________________________________ .

2. Thank you ___________________________________________________________ because

_______________________________________________ .

3. Thank you ___________________________________________________________ because

_______________________________________________ .

The whole point of the exercise is to steer you towards better feeling emotions, even if you are currently in a pleasing mood.

She encourages the reader to make it a point to write out this list of three things that you are grateful for, and to do it on a daily basis, with her providing scientific research of the profound results the daily exercise had on people to back it up.

Yes, Thank You Power has been tested, and all of the results were in favour of those willing candidates that practiced feeling gratitude & expressing gratitude on a daily basis – not as a chore but opening their hearts so to be healed by words of gratitude their soul is constantly consoling them with.

The book – Thank You Power – also has inspiring stories of how people benefited from practicing gratitude then Deborah Norville even goes on to tell of the miraculous results produces by daily gratitude with people dealing with shocking experiences life, at times, has a tendency of throwing at us & even other stories of how people tend to recover faster from traumatic experiences through the use of the transformational power of daily gratitude.

So put it to test, give thanks to people, things and circumstances that made the day more convenient for you.

Deborah Norville also noted of the people that she interviewed in her book, that these people were more positive about the future. They were healthier, happier & richer.

This brings to mind what spiritual teachers keep on saying, in how good things tend to come our way when we release the things that make us hurt inside. Things that hold us back in succeeding in life.

One of the best releasing techniques I know and have ever come across AND to experience, which in turn has led to more productivity and more faith in my ever more prosperous, loving and healthy, future in my life, is gratitude.

See article about Gratitude Rock I wrote some time ago.

With that said I encourage you to get your hands on Thank You Power: Making the Science of Gratitude Work for You and marvel at how “lighter” life becomes through almost effortless conjuring of gratitude.

Thank You for taking the time to read this.

© Musawenkosi Tshoaele, 2010. All rights reserved.

Be The Freedom You Seek

There was a motivational poster my science teacher by the name of Mr. Swart had against one of his that I couldn’t understand.

At one point I had enough and asked a friend whether he understood it.

He immediately said yes as if wondering what human could understand such a basic statement.

I then asked if he could amuse me and explain it to me.

He explained, “The quote is in the form of a question asking what if the enemy that must be feared is not any one outside ourselves but ourselves.”

“Which literaly means that the enemy that should be battled is with ourselves.”

Now I take it that everything external that we all to hurt us is an external version of ourselves we hate.

Hatred is just an error in thought or perception.

Change the perception and you change the outcome.

Negative emotions are also known as resistance, and this blog update I attracted via twitter talks about releasing the resistance.

I pray you find it uplifting and helpful and inspiring and motivational and enriching and awesome and full of love and tenderness.

(c) Musawenkosi Tshoaele

In Between The Dripping Nose This Came To Me

I enjoy living in my own world, teaching myself about the law of attraction pointing at things and saying to myself, “I attracted that!”

Like now.

Sinusitis is having a field day with my face today, but what I need do is focus on healing and being grateful for it.

Making a deliberate effort of projecting an image in my mind of a health version of myself will increase the healing process.

I have found that nature always leans on the side of progress, increase, abundance, perfect health and eternal love, peace and spontaneous joy and laughter, gratitude, happiness and passion.

If I am not in a healthy positive mood, I am being unnatural.

I might be normal but not natural.

I am some how standing in the way of my freedom and positive attitude.

Actually it’s my ego that is standing in the way, always in need of attention, recognition and to be comfort and to feel superior.

The blockage holds back the loving energy that I and all things are, you included by the way, and this build up causes discomfort, tension, stress, pain and struggle.

Which comes to me in the form of negative people or circumstance and even irregular bodily functions.

When this is just a belief that I can first change by changing my perception of it.

“When I judge someone, I do not define them, I define myself.” – Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

So my negative belief about something or someone is in fact the negativity I associate myself with at the same time.

This error in thinking is against the essence of what makes the world tick – which is variations of positively-inclined, abundant energy – and will therefore cause my to experience temporary discomfort.

It’s like swimming against the tide of the universe. A universe which you are a part of.

Today’s recommendation is Hale Dworskin’s The Sedona Method, which is a must have if you want to learn of a way to “heal” limiting beliefs that cause pain, disease, even failure.

Image releasing the things in your mind that block you from using the full 100% of your energy, portions of which are locked fueling past concepts that are limiting your current success…, loving relationships and perfect health included!

Now as to what might be the cause of my dis-ease…

“Dis-ease cannot live in a body that is at ease.” – Bob Proctor in The Secret.

…that needs more than a blog for me to write on.

– Musawenkosi Tshoaele, Copyright (c) 2009 – All rights reserved.

PS. I have come to having faith in the fact that all events lead to the same outcome. And it is always a positive one.

Even Jack Canfield mentioned in his The Success Principles(TM): How to Get from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be that “everything that happens in your life is leading you towards your goal” so it’s only natural for me to see the good in all experiences, even the not so cool ones.

That is why in the temporary condition I am in, a condition that is making its way out of my body as we speak, I was inspired to bring to your attention this releasing technique that works according to testimonials.

But I’ve always prefer experience of being a far greater teacher amongst all.

Buy the book – it was going for $11.56 on amazon at the time of this posting), change your life, and prosper.

The Sedona Method: Your Key to Lasting Happiness, Success, Peace and Emotional Well-Being

How To Receive More Love In Your Life

There are a lot of stuff “out there” that you do not like.

These things are just parts of yourself you do not like.

If you were to look at them with love and gratitude and compassion you will find that they will change.

In truth, it is you that has changed.

Keep repeating the words, “I love you,” and/ or “I am sorry,” and/ or “I am grateful” to yourself with the idea of projecting it to the universe and heal yourself by releasing those vibrations you do not associate yourself with, so that your world can heal.

Be patient with this releasing technique and come back to it whenever you must.

Anywhere, anytime.

Musawenkosi Tshoaele, Copyright (c) 2009 – All rights reserved.

Releasing Is Just A Decision

This another email subscription I registered for compiliments of this website

Musa

How do you Release?

How do you heal stress?

Healing stress in marriage, your job, your money or anywhere in your life is easy when you see it’s all a point of view.

Things that come up in your marriage or with money causing you stress are easy to release if you see it depends on your attitude.

Let me put it yet another way.

It doesn’t matter what’s going on.

It’s your attitude toward it that counts.

You decide, whatever comes up, you’re going to relax or you’re going to have stress.

You heal situations when you release, meaning let go of the stressful feelings you’re having.

Stress relief happens when you decide to relax.

You relax when you decide to let go of the stress.

It’s just a decision.

If you get all riled up about the economy, or money, or about your marriage, how does it help anything?

All you get is more stress, right?

You can never get to relaxation by using the route called stress.

Yet, isn’t that what you’re doing?

Something happens you don’t like.

You blow up.

Do a little stress test right now.

Does blowing up give you more stress or less stress?

Does blowing up relax you?

Of course, not.

Sounds crazy, doesn’t it?

But that’s exactly what you do.

You decided how to handle stress beginning when you were in the crib.

Your mother didn’t feed you when you were hungry and you pitched a fit.

Promptly she showed up and fed you.

So you said, hmmm, that worked pretty good.

And, you’re still doing it even though now it doesn’t work so good.

Get this.

Relaxation does not come by using stress to fix stress.

Relaxation comes from relaxing in the face of stress.

When something crazy happens in your marriage or with your money or whatever, see what is happening.

Instead of the automatic reaction of flipping out, relax, release, let go.

When you do that, the situation will resolve or it won’t bother you.

Your spouse could run off with the neighbor.

You money could all disappear.

You do not have to be affected.

It’s a decision.

You make a smart decision when you see using those stressful emotions never accomplishes anything but more stress.

Happy Releasing Tam S of Release Technique