Replace Your S** t Habits With Good Ones

I kept on seeing and hearing the name Simon Sinek being projected in my head.

Simon Sinek.

As if stuck in the frontal lobe of my brain.

Simon Sinek.

All this, haunting, while trying to sleep.

So here I am, writing about him.

I don’t know much about him.

He was first brought to my attention by a business partner who has a background in medicine.

Google Sinek.

From the little I know of him is that he’s a speaker.

He speaks about most about leadership. On what defines a leader and what drives her. Reasons why they are true leaders. Amongst other things.

He’s available on different social media sites, I also follow him on Twitter and IG.

He’s an author as well, he wrote Start With Why.

And there are lots of videos on the ‘Tube that have he’s talks.

I think there’s a vid of one of his talks I posted in one of my blogs that I thought was awesome.

There’s a bias that comes with being a leader that I want to take advantage of.

The monetary benefits of being paid to solve problems being one of them.

It’s as if followers create problems while leaders get paid to solve them.

So I’ve been listening to some of his audios as well. Him, John Maxwell and Gary Vaynerchuk are the 3 guys I’ve been filling my head with of late.

And Eric Thomas. #TGIM

I guess I can be obsessed with certain things in my life, such as my personal development.

If I don’t invest the time for it, noone else will.

Then I will just be like the rest of them, blaming my job or spouse or community or the government or the gods for my current, undesirable situations.

Not realising that the true problem here is me.

I fix me, all else gets fixed.

It’s an inside job.

~ Musa

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The Fixer

B33rFzqCYAIREuFSometimes when the road ahead looks very dark, anxiety levels go up.

That’s when I come to you God to help shed some light.

But if the road I’m taking vele has no street lights then I’m relieved knowing that you are by my side.

I’m taking this knee with this post because I’m also in dire need so my ancestors need to be also involved in this prayer.

Because without them I would be here, and without You they wouldn’t have been.

I light my candles and incense with this update in gratitude of what I already have.

Thank you for our business.

Thank you for our jobs.

Thank you for the shelter you are providing us.

Thank you for the water and lights that we sometimes take for granted.

Thank you for the food we eat.

Our perfect health and the rich relationships we have.

Thank you for the clothes on our backs.

And the large amounts of income that come to us through various sources, with increasing frequency.

All praise goes to you God.

I am bound to make flops along the way.

I just want to thank you for softening the falls.

Thank you for giving me the courage to fail forward.

Because there is no learning without falling. And I need to learn so I can grow to be my better self.

Continue guiding us through to our better self.

Yours in gratitude,

Amen

When Death, Time & Love Write Back 

I don’t like movies that make me cry.

Watching Collateral Beauty starring Will Smith had me squinting my eyes.

collateral_beautyHolding my tears back with my eyelids.

It’s been a while since I’ve watched a movie like that.

Evoking so much emotions then throwing me out of wack after it was done with me.

It was Mr. Smith’s best performance to date.

Enjoyed listening to the story behind the scenes on how he also experienced loss during the making of the movie.

How he just went all out in giving it all through the film.

Can’t wait until it’s out on Blu-ray.

It’s worth the watch.

Please forgive me.

I’m sorry.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musa

“Don’t Die With Your Music Still In You” ~ @DrWayneWDyer

Just a bit bummed about the passing of the good Dr Wanye Dyer.

But after counseling with my #joy @Phetheni we came to the understanding that he played his part in this world.

And it’s up to us to pay forward his teachings to leave where ever we are better than how we found it.

“Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change.” – Wayne Dyer

I love you.

Thank you.

– Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Ever Felt the Indescribable Joy & Inner Peace that Comes With “Freedom Tapping” Your Limiting Thoughts Away?

You could say I’ve been working the bugs out of my system.

And then eagerly taking advantage of the opportunities that come my way as a result.

Negative thoughts – be them via negative past experiences or beliefs – counteract your positive intentions.

They will continue to do so until they are released by you.

& one of the ways you can do this for yourself is by tapping them out of your system.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

PS: Did you know that you have about 2500-3300 thoughts an hour??

It’s unbelievable!

Read more about this HERE.

Why You Get More of What You Are Against

“What you focus on grows stronger.”

When you are against something, you invite more opportunities for you to be against it.

Thereby defeating your objective.

Because when you are against a particular politician or an evil of sorts, you are in a state where you send out signals to the Universe to bring in more evidence or people or events that will intensify your pushing against it.

So in effect what you would be attracting is more situations for you to experience more of what is unwanted, in order for you to go against it more.

When you go against, that which you are against grows…the more you go against…the more that which you are against grows.

A downward spiral of cause & effect.

The more you push against something unwanted, the more the unwanted pushes against you.

You attract the essence of what you feel.

“Energy flows where attention goes.”

It is no wonder Mother Teresa was quoted to have said.“I will never attend an anti-war rally; if you have a peace rally, invite me.”

This is because, just like Dr. Carl Jung uncovered, “What you resist will persist.”

Pushing against what you don’t what makes it grow stronger because that’s where all of you attention goes.

And where all your attention is, is where all your energy flows.

I’m not suggesting you bottle up all your emotions on something that makes you feel bad.

I’m just bringing to your attention that if your end objective is wanting this unwanted thing to end, then joining rallies in support against it will have the reverse effect.

But if you’re really serious about wanting to have positive effect in your environment instead of being an indirect promoter of the things you don’t want, then you need to go to the source of it all.

The process of “cleaning” and “clearing” the unwanted in your life begins within.

I’m sorry.

Please forgive me.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

PS: In order for you to master the events that occur around you in your life experience, you need to come to terms that everything, good or bad, are projections that originate from you.

And for you to experience cleaner life results and events, you first need to clean and clear the cause of it all.

You.

For you to better understand what was written in the blog above, you need to hear more of what Dr. Joe Vitale and Dr. Ihaleakala Hew Len have to say about this goal achieving technique.

So that you too can live a life of Zero Limits!

The Serenity Prayer aka The AA Prayer

Reinhold Niebuhr’s

The Serenity Prayer

God, give me grace to accept with serenity

the things that cannot be changed,

Courage to change the things

which should be changed,

and the Wisdom to distinguish

the one from the other.

Living one day at a time,

Enjoying one moment at a time,

Accepting hardship as a pathway to peace,

Taking, as Jesus did,

This sinful world as it is,

Not as I would have it,

Trusting that You will make all things right,

If I surrender to Your will,

So that I may be reasonably happy in this life,

And supremely happy with You forever in the next.

Amen.

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele