Laws Of The Lawless

41B7NXyandLI’m due another one pager.

I do my best to write a blog that is at least 1 page long.

Something informative that you might gain from.

Usually I go back to one of my earlier posts to see what I can rehash, for the sake of updating my blog.

I usually like to add a picture or two just to add some weight or depth to my post.

It was something I read in one of his earlier “How to Blog” posts by Darren from ProBlogger.

Shoot, it’s been years since I mentioned him and I’m not too sure if Darren is as relatable as he was in 2012, but I’m sure he is.

But I learnt a whole lot about blogging from him and I learnt even more about writing from Dr. Joe Vitale, who also starred in The Secret.

The Secret was an awesome book, in the sense that it gives you the option to run with it.

By “it” I mean the idea of changing things for the better, through the Law of Attraction.

An introduction module if you will, not the by and all.

This led me to the true understanding of the law.

Action.

You can meditate and visualize and writing your goals down every day, but you need to take inspired action.

No action.

Nothing changes.

Just like me wanting to update my blog frequently.

Thinking about it, won’t change anything.

I need to do something about it.

Like writing a one page draft without any idea what the blog is going to be about.

And then subtly referring readers like yourself to links that might be helpful.

Because I’m being nice and these non-affiliated links is my way of buying my way to heaven because I’m a sinner.

Did you know that the devil is a concept that was created by Christianity?

~ Musa

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How You Feel Attracts What You See

I’ve been reading this book about vibrations in relation to the brain.

How not only your thoughts are a form of vibration, but how also your feelings a another form of vibration too.

Then it made me think how I’ve being feeling these days.

Anxious…frustrated emotions (vibrations).

While, in the same breath, praying (vibrating) for better circumstances that would make feel better.

Contradicting vibrations.

What you vibrate, you attract.

Like vibrations attract like vibrations.

It’s a freaking awesome realization as well as freaking terrifying.

It made me think:

What are your dominate thoughts?

What are your dominate feelings on an average day?

Because, according to research, all things, at their molecular level – are vibrations.

Everything things are energy.

Vibrating at different levels.

The level of your vibrations, dictates what willing be coming your way.

You attract, at a vibrational level.

The art is to match your current vibrations (thoughts & emotions) with your future goals.

You know, that feeling you will have once you get what you want?

That’s how you should be feeling now.

Easier said than done.

Especially if your life is a reincarnation of the movie Falling Down.

But maybe that’s why there are few people who succeed & the many who do not.

The few that put in the work, in order to achieve.

Let’s strive to be the few who are chosen.

~ Musa

You Could Have It Worse

downloadHad a shit day at work yesterday.

Came back home having successfully gathered, in my mind, other BS past events to feel shit about.

But instead of hiding my mini depression behind alcohol or sex, I decided to pray about it.

Having all that stuff compound inside you, in the form of thoughts, will fester and eat you up inside.

Venting in the form of prayer, for me anyway, helps.

So I went to bed, sat up and took my sleeping Sethu in my arms and began to pray.

As if using her as my telephone line to God.

Mentioning how that very baby girl has the flue and needs to get better soon.

How taking her to speech therapy is emotionally taxing and how I need to be strong for her during these effortless sessions – the little one has the time of her life during these sessions.

I also prayed on how I need to speak to this surprisingly ignorant daycare teacher labeling my genius baby as a slow learner, even though the child development specialist evaluated that she’s only delayed in speech for her age.

Please-climb-that-tree1Actually f*** the specialist, I see that my baby is on point, even though the stupid twat doesn’t.

I prayed over the shit job situation, and their stupid ass meetings that borderline exit interviews.

Prayed about me having to raise 6 times my monthly salary in a space of 12 months as an offering to officially marry the mother of my child.

Me having to move my family to a new rental space. This being our 9th move to date.

The car needing services & repairs.

Me, the first born, feeling compelled to take care of my mom who sold her house.

God knows why.

I say God knows because after the house got sold and she had to go rent for a couple of months, she moved to another church.

The previous church is rumored as a church that uses people’s beliefs to church’s benefit…then again isn’t that the case with most churches?

God works in mysterious ways.

Mom now stays with relatives, who I feel are side eyeing me on why I haven’t stepped up to the plate and took ownership of her situation.

Hell, I’m barely holding things together with my family, let alone including umama into the equation.

Thinking that having the mother of my child going back to live her parents house would save us some money and open up some cashflow options, only to have her own mother kick her out.

Mamazala, your future son in law is working on solutions here but you’re a not getting with the program.

With resumes being updated and submitted for new job apps among all of this. Anxiety levels stretching since I’m going out of my comfort zone and whoring myself out to the marketplace yet again.

Then I heard are only distributor of energy in South Africa was over R400 billion in debt.

So maybe I don’t have it all that bad see?

~ Musa

Replace Your S** t Habits With Good Ones

I kept on seeing and hearing the name Simon Sinek being projected in my head.

Simon Sinek.

As if stuck in the frontal lobe of my brain.

Simon Sinek.

All this, haunting, while trying to sleep.

So here I am, writing about him.

I don’t know much about him.

He was first brought to my attention by a business partner who has a background in medicine.

Google Sinek.

From the little I know of him is that he’s a speaker.

He speaks about most about leadership. On what defines a leader and what drives her. Reasons why they are true leaders. Amongst other things.

He’s available on different social media sites, I also follow him on Twitter and IG.

He’s an author as well, he wrote Start With Why.

And there are lots of videos on the ‘Tube that have he’s talks.

I think there’s a vid of one of his talks I posted in one of my blogs that I thought was awesome.

There’s a bias that comes with being a leader that I want to take advantage of.

The monetary benefits of being paid to solve problems being one of them.

It’s as if followers create problems while leaders get paid to solve them.

So I’ve been listening to some of his audios as well. Him, John Maxwell and Gary Vaynerchuk are the 3 guys I’ve been filling my head with of late.

And Eric Thomas. #TGIM

I guess I can be obsessed with certain things in my life, such as my personal development.

If I don’t invest the time for it, noone else will.

Then I will just be like the rest of them, blaming my job or spouse or community or the government or the gods for my current, undesirable situations.

Not realising that the true problem here is me.

I fix me, all else gets fixed.

It’s an inside job.

~ Musa

Sometimes Sleep Is Not Enough

My feet are sore.

My body is tired.

I feel sick.

I feel weak.

And I’m the type of guy that gets easily agitated when I feel weak.

Must be the pride.

The thing is, in this business that I recently got promoted in, losing my attitude means a delay in my growth & profit.

Tomorrow I’m gonna work on my step number 6.

But why wait for tomorrow what I can work on today.

Maybe that’s the thing.

I’m busy working so much that I don’t give myself time to just be.

Ever since I started the program it’s been work, work, work, work all the time.

Instead of being, being, being all the time.

Just taking a moment to being present.

A lot of things change but the basics always remain the same.

It is only when I am in misalignment with what I am that it is only a matter of time for me to feel discomfort and stress first in my mind then my body.

I love you.

Please forgive me.

Thank you.

I’m sorry.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

When You Feel Good You Do Good #TeamFeelGood

“To know and not to do is not to know”
~ Wang Yangming

I’ve been playing this audio program called Your Wish Is Your Command and I also about to finish reading Jerry & Esther Hicks’ The Astonishing Power of Emotions which have ideas and principles that complement each other.

A brilliant set of motivational material that I highly recommend you get for yourself.

The principle that seemed to hit home for me, especially after listening to the audios every day, was how:

when you feel bad you are thinking about something you don’t want.

And,

when you feel good you are thinking about something you do want.

Basically these success tips keep saying that you should use your emotions as a kind of guiding system, to help you better manage your mood, and therefore your thoughts.

If you feel bad that means you’re thinking negative thoughts that, if persisted in, will attract negative people and circumstances.

If you feel good that means you’re thinking positive thoughts that, if persisted in, will attract positive people and circumstances.

So when you deliberately work on improving and selecting better thoughts you also improve your emotions.

And when you work on vibrating improved thoughts and improved emotions then you will attract to yourself improved life experiences.

This is you activating the Law of Attraction which states that you attract to yourself the essence of what you are thinking and feeling.

So I catch myself feeling neither good nor bad, or what you call just feeling neutral, I then take that as a sign to work on improving my emotional state.

I need to work on deliberately being in a powerful (positive) attracting state of vibration (mood).

Being neutral or negative won’t cut it.

Just because it’s normal to be negative doesn’t make it natural.

We only live in a negative world based on what you choose to focus on.

Ignoring the bad won’t make it go away.

But choosing to focus on the bad only makes it grow stronger.

Energy grows where attention goes.

Libraries, the Internet and stores have many tools that you can use to best improve your mood.

It’s a matter of doing your research & trying them out to see which one works for you.

Always remember, faith without works is dead.

What you don’t use, you lose.

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

PS: To get you started, you can check out these quotes by the Original Teachers of the Law of Attraction over » HERE.