The Tighter The Grip The More Painful The Experience

So how are you feeling right now?










…Wow. If I felt all that at the same time I would be overwhelmed too.

How does that make you feel feeling all the way you do?

Like I’m not in control of my results.

Ok…now based on what you know and blog about even over at blogspot how true is that?

…It’s of course an incorrect definition of what I’m experiencing but I can’t deny I’m feeling FANTASTIC when I aint.

You’re quite right about that one. As optimistic as we would like to be, sometimes we need to call a spade a spade right?

That’s for damn sure!

Indeed. But I’m sure you would agree that if what you focus on expands, how much more of the negative things will you come up with if your focus is ON the negatives? A lot more isn’t it?

…Ja sure.

How much better would you feel if you were to take your focus and momentum OFF what you don’t want – because I’m certain you don’t want things to remain as they are since they aren’t getting you any where – and ON to the things you DO want?

Ja man but it’s not easy man!

Yeah because you’ve gotten so used to feeling hurt that you’ve become loyal to pain than you are of pleasure?

You feel you don’t deserve to feel pleasure so you would rather feel pain because that’s a feeling you are more familiar with? As in that is your comfort zone?

Just because you’re nothing speaking to me doesn’t mean I can’t read your thoughts ne?

I guess I’ve hit a nerve so for publishing purposes slowly…and gently let go of the pain you are feeling right now – as frightening as letting go may seem to you right now – and share your thoughts with Me…

…I feel safer in the pain.

I know. This is because pain has protected you in the pass right? I mean why get rid of something that works right?

…But it’s not working.

And why is that?

Because things don’t go my way at the end of the day.

Is it? Ok. So how can we begin to change things so that they turn around for us?

By beginning to let go of limited self image I have for myself and reaching over to a better self concept of myself.

Even if I fall at least I would have tried.

Because holding on to my old self is costing me in money and emotionally and physically…

Always ask: ‘What is this I am feeling?’

‘Could I accept it and allow it?’

‘Could I let this go?’

‘Would I let this go?’


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The Art of Letting Go

Sometimes you need to let go.

Ideally this “letting go” process should be an every day thing.

I think it’s because in most cases letting go is part of a healing process.

Especially when holding on is doing more bad than good.

This guy made an example of holding on to a pen.

The tighter the grip and the longer you grip it, the higher the chance of it hurting your hand.

Same goes for everything else.

It’s a scary thought letting go of things you’ve gotten used to making you feel pain.

In theory yes we want to feel pleasure but the fear of loss is greater than the need to gain.

So make it a gradual release.

One inch at a time.

One finger at a time.

One day of a time.

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Be A Serial Optimist

“No one has power over you unless you give it to them, you are in control of your life & your choices decide your own fate.”
~ A Tweet from @TheGodLight

You must always look for the silver lining.

You must always look for the good in all things.

And this must be done BEFORE shit hits the fan.

Because it’s easier to set the sails of your boat, your mind, in calm waters.

(So practice when the going is good.)

It’s another matter when the same boat needs setting in a storm.

(Now you implement when the going is rough.)

You could look away and tell yourself, “There’s no storm. There’s no storm. There’s no storm.”

Because that’s not the truth of the matter when your emotions feel that there’s nothing BUT storm about you.

“What you resist will persist.”
~ Carl Jung

Accept the storm.

Allow the storm.

Then look into how you could build the momentum of moving yourself through the storm.

“If you’re going through hell, keep going.”
~ Winston Churchill

Complaining and taking persist action towards improving your situation is better than just complaining while sitting on your hands.

“Take MASSIVE, consistent, action.”
~ Anthony Robbins

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Worst Case Scenario: What If The Internet Were To Shut Down?

These Mayans 2012 predictions couldn’t have come a better time, if only the movie “2012” could have been released in 1984 neh? It would have made the “predictions” less believable, Internet and all.

The Internet shutting down?? I know, I know the likelihood of that happening are slim to none, just like how that crazy scientist proposed how the world is in actual fact not the center of the universe.

Just thought I should probe your mind a little, in the very sober holiday season state you are in.

How well insured are you against something of that magnitude happening though?

Can you use your online skills offline as well?

Maybe I just idolize the past but I believe that one needs to include diversification in the way one sees the Internet also.

So that just like the world ended in the year 2000 & the Mayans prediction comes true, we would have in our possession hard copies of the fun stuff we posted on the net.

I hate to say it, but come to think about it, if people buy into these predictions like they did the millennium craze, enough to influence other spineless crowd followers into fear, then I have no choice but to capitalize on this unfounded fear of death like I know other corporates will.

And knowing what the media is capable of – see Zeitgeist Movie – I am sure they will play their part in trying to make us run around like headless chickens while reaping the rewards of our staged vulnerability, as short term as it might be.

Who knows, maybe they will prolong this fear by leaking rumors of how one can’t be really certain WHEN the world would end (remember the fun the media had in issuing the “war on terrorism”), holding us in the state of uncertainty while finding a way to vacuum clean our pockets.

If you teach a large enough crowd how to fear, then you will always have control over them.

The modern day version of mass dictatorship.

Online journals should have offline versions.

Notes on your “crack”berry must be written out for you to see whether the battery in on or off.

Something to re-awaken your senses, to make you feel human again, something you can touch, smell, taste, hear, and see.

Interacting with another human being instead of feeling repelled by them. Having a fear of crowds but no minding participating within a forum of a million or more people globally.

Relationships are key, heavens, you might even realize that they are the link to everything else. As in the state of your overall relationships are the result of the state of your finances and your health.

When chaos abounds within your life or/ and body remembering the fundamentals could save your life. That in how we are human BEINGS and not human DOINGS.

Slow down.

Close your eyes.

Take a deep breath in and feel yourself taking a slow, deliberate breath out.

And see things (life) from a different love (light, same thing).

Yours in eternal peace, and ever-flowing joy,


PS. Yes, with all things said “2012” is quiet entertaining, if Sci-Fi and thriller and killer graphics are your thing.

I absolutely love the ending though when the world…nah, what a spoiler that would be. Grab a copy retailing at for $14.99 at the time of this posting, if you don’t have one already or the DVD rentals are out of stock, to know what I meant about the awesome, awesome ending.


“Hatred and/ or anger are competitive emotions that make you experience a world of limitation.

Love and/ or gratitude are creative emotions that make you experience a world of abundance.” ~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

“Stand ye out and be different and don’t let the others trick you back into where you were.

It’s not easy.

It takes fortitude.” ~ Lester levenson, Keys To Ultimate Freedom.

“Adversity is a prod to growth.” ~ Lester levenson, Keys To Ultimate Freedom.

“You should thank those who oppose you because they give you an unusual opportunity for growth.” ~ Lester levenson, Keys To Ultimate Freedom.

“It is a good opportunity to grow when people are saying things about you, opposing you.

It gives you a chance to practice the real Love.

It gives you a chance to practice the real Peace.

Because they are making sounds with their mouths is no reason why you should feel bad about it.

Opposition is a very healthy thing.

It prokes and firms growth.” ~ Lester levenson, Keys To Ultimate Freedom.

(c) Musawenkosi Tshoaele, 2010

I Attract Into My Life What I Am In Harmony With

Maybe I should just let her go…

She reminds me of Boitumelo and Chantel and Shestine and them I work with, always having to spin on my head just to get their attention just for me to say “Hi!”

In terms of how I want to relate with people, ass kissing is NOT at the top of my list!

Just thinking about it is making me hungry…

I always eat when I’m upset or, in all emotional cases, allow myself to be.

I love her, that is without question but maybe it has to do with, what has now become, our vibrational discord…?

With me “forcing” her to be in sync with me is like holding on to the past that would never be as long as I have @thube and there’s no other woman, outside my family, I love more.

Maybe if I had lied, yes, if I had I would have gotten…whatever it was that I wanted from her.





A mastermind of deceit?




Images I resist, only to successfully project them into my subconscious, only to “wake up,” consciously, to realise I’m at the point of no return & continue on cautiosly, sending her mixed signals in the process.

That’s the thing about me, I love too quickly and do so deeply, intensly, and passionately, expecting the same amount of affection – if not more – to come back to me.

And I feel hurt, like my chest is on fire, when this doesn’t happen.

There’s no point in going backwards, against the tide of “Life-Ever Increasing,” just to make my ego self look good.

I must gently, and effortlessly reframe from projecting into the future, the heavy non-profitable bags of the past.

I must, I am making my life experiences easier by remaining present.

Going forward, in an upward spiral taking with me what I need, doing away with that which weakens my progressive efforts.

Like the love of my 2009 qoutes “you gotta love it, or leave it alone!”

Talking about “letting go” it reminded me of the founder of what has now called The Sedona Method, Lester Levenson.

It’s a “releasing technique” that unblocks the energy you use to keep past grudges, unnecessary energy consuming experiences that affect your current effeciency.

If you want to release limiting and painful feelings, beliefs, and attitudes, you may consider getting The Sedona Method: Your Key to Lasting Happiness, Success, Peace and Emotional Well-Being

I found another site that was resonating in harmony with what I wanted you to know of the man behind the man, Lester Levenson, and hopefully inspire you to to “let go and let God.”

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