You Are What You Accept

4694342-Jay-Z-Quote-Don-t-ever-go-with-the-flow-Be-the-flowYou teach people how you would like to be treated, by how you react to what they say or do.

Either by acceptance of what they do to you or by you reprimanding them.

To correct someone on how you would like to be treated, I believe, comes from raising your standards.

Low standards allows them to continue “taking advantage” of you, while raising them educates them on how you would like to be treated.

It takes courage to put yourself first.

It takes courage futhi to “equip” people on how you like to be treated, in order for them to bring out the best in you.

It’s a win-win.

Reminds me of how I cringe when people organize events at the last minute and expect me to participate.

9 times out of 10 I don’t. If I do, it is with a closed heart.

Give me time to think it over in my mind as a typical melancholy. Don’t pull a sanguine move on me and expect to me to be jolly about it.

But then again I’m an introvert, so being “out there” drains my energy, at times.

I’m just at a point in my life, with all that’s happening, where I cannot “go with the flow” that goes against my core values.

Living a lie is tiring.

There is power outside your comfort zone.

~ Musa

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The Annoyed Leader

obama-looking-pissed-annoyedNothing that annoys me more than the “L” word.

Being a leader comes with responsibility.

Hence leaders are paid more than followers.

And that’s what I want, to be paid more.

Just not liking what I need to become for that to happen.

Like someone once said, people want to go to heaven but are afraid of dying.

For you to reach the end, a process needs to be followed.

Much like what my mentor mentioned during our sit down yesterday.

Freedom is not free.

So for my bank balance to grow, I need to grow.

And the recommended books that teach leadership will help with that.

It’s a continous thing though.

Every day I need to read for at least 15 minutes.

The good stuff I’m feeding my brain with come out in the form of my actions.

And that’s how all things change, through your actions.

Leaders are readers.

And in the long run, what I am seeing as my current reality will differ.

Especially since associations are important.

She also mentioned how pain is your friend.

Without pain then there is no growth.

That means you are comfortable.

Yet success is at the end of your comfort zone.

Because if you keep doing what you’ve been doing, then you will keep getting what you are currently getting.

But the rub is that this process of reading needs to be consistent, for the Slight Edge to have the time to kick in.

That’s why I need to be in it for the long run.

Because leadership is not limited to business or work.

Those that you are in charge of are looking up to you as a leader.

I like how Simon Sinek puts it:

“Leadership is a responsibility. It’s not about being in charge. It’s about taking care of those in your charge.” – @SimonSinek

~ Musa

A Business Like No Other…

new-mlm-companiesI think network marketing levels the playing field.

I could be wrong, it’s just my observation.

From my limited observation, businesses are handed over from generation to generation.

The only legacy I’ve seen being left the masses is poverty.

Some families are brought up with the option of aspiring to be business owner, while other families are sold the idea of becoming employees or self employed.

Asking the government to fix this in the form of land distribution, for instance, is as effective as the removal of our now current President from office.

But network marketing nullifies this dependent mindset.

The right one also offers you training and mentorship on how to succeed by also developing a business owner mindset.

But the best ones allow for your network marketing business to be passed on from generation to generation, just like these families I spoke of earlier.

With the right training to develop your skills, I believe anyone can succeed in what they put their minds to.

Multi level marketing included.

One of the hiccups I have with conventional business is the start up capital, amongst other uncertainties.

But obviously if you are committed enough and want it badly enough then you can find solutions around that.

I guess one chooses ones battles.

With me preferring minimum start up capital.

Minimal operational costs.

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With some part time but consistent work ethic, the results are predictable.

Results that can supplement my current salary.

Results that can be on par with my current salary.

Results that can eclipse my current salary.

A business like no other.

Look as a disclaimer, anything legit that allows you to make extra income is great.

Be it MLMs or another job or part time gig or strip joints.

I’m just talking about what I’m exposed to.

Do you due dilengece.

This working you way up to your salary month end only to start at zero the following month, is insane.

But most of us are doing it so it’s ok right?

I don’t think so.

~ Musa

Fight or Flight

Have you ever wanted something so bad that when it gets to be only centimetres away from you that you become too scared to take it?

When the fight or flight response takes over.

Having to decide whether to run away from it or to fight for what you want.

That internal conflict within you that you find comfort in because of how it leads to you doing anything.

The inaction that has brought you to where you are right now.

Where now you are at the crossroads of your life once again where you have to ask yourself which step to take next…

One of relief,

…freedom,

…peace,

…happiness,

…joy,

…accomplishment,

…love,

…recognition,

…success?

Or do you stay in your current state, hoping – like you have been for the past 5 years – for the change to come.

Change that will never come until you change.

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Ever Felt the Indescribable Joy & Inner Peace that Comes With “Freedom Tapping” Your Limiting Thoughts Away?

You could say I’ve been working the bugs out of my system.

And then eagerly taking advantage of the opportunities that come my way as a result.

Negative thoughts – be them via negative past experiences or beliefs – counteract your positive intentions.

They will continue to do so until they are released by you.

& one of the ways you can do this for yourself is by tapping them out of your system.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

PS: Did you know that you have about 2500-3300 thoughts an hour??

It’s unbelievable!

Read more about this HERE.

The 5 Step System to Getting You What You Want!!

Yesterday I forget to suggest you get one of the best goal achieving systems you can ever get for yourself.

I wonder if you’ve seen me referring to it before…

It’s by Dr. Joe Vitale?

What’s the deal with this success program by one of the teachers from The Secret you ask?

It’s based on the 5 easy steps system to creating wealth and success in your life from one of his books The Attractor Factor – See Amazon.com for more details.

You can see all of the powerful 5 steps when you Click Here!

Once you have downloaded the recordings they will go into more in-depth details about these amazing steps, revealing to you more secrets of the happiness and success that the majority of us aren’t aware of.

On top of it all, you can have these recordings playing over and over and over again in the background at your convenience while doing something else if you like.

“Repetition is the mother of all learning.”
~ Anthony Robbins

I thought this was a brilliant way to bring to life the New Year’s resolutions (or goals for the year) your declared for yourself at the beginning of the year…you still remember those don’t you?

What better way for you to stay COMMITTED to your goals than to have a daily “coach” with you, for you to “consult” anytime and anywhere for YOUR convenience.

“A teacher teaches but a great coach is forever.” ~
Phil Knight

How many times have you stopped going at your goals because you lacked the motivation and inspiration to keep the momentum going?

That’s why I feel these recordings are ideal for you and your success, happiness and improved physical health.

It even has a 100% Iron-Clad Money-Back Guarantee.

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I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Could Your Unlimited Success Really Be at the Tip of Your Fingers?

“If you want to develop yourself, you have to invest in yourself. Be it in time or money. I suggest you be open minded to investing in both.”

It’s amazing how what I’m currently reading about tapping has a direct link to one of the goal achieving recordings put on this page for your instant download.

This just made it more clearer to me that you could be doing all the things that are necessary for you to achieve your goals.

Only to find that you have self limiting beliefs within you that are pushing away the goal that you are working towards.

Tapping or EFT attempts to release these beliefs that block your ability to attract.

And once you have achieved a better free flowing energy system within you, the faster you can receive whatever meaningful objective you desire.

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele