Being Better Than Your Old Self 

htwfaip​”The way to get things done,” says  [Charles] Schwab, “is to stimulate competition. I do not mean in a sordid, money-getting way, but in the desire to excel.” 

Ran our of characters for me to post this on Twitter so I’m posting it here.

Thought this was a cool quote.

Competing to be better than who you are.

From a book I’m reading again by Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People. 

Thank you.

I’m sorry.

Please forgive me.

I love you.

~ Musa

What You Link to Pleasure or Pain Determines Your Results

A lesson that I’ve been learning for the past couple of weeks at my sales job is that your behavior has a direct link to the results you get.

The way you behave influences the way you act.

And it’s your actions that produce the results you get.

And lately for me it hasn’t been fruitful for me to allow my emotions to rule how I act.

Since it’s because of that, that my results have not been so awesome.

And the funny thing with life’s lessons, as painful as they are, they will keep on repeating until you get the lesson.

A famous personal development coach by the name of @Tony Robbins once said we are motivated by pain and pleasure.

The more pleasure you link into doing something, the more you will keep doing it.

The more pain you will link into not doing something, the more you will continue not doing it.

So in other words the more I link pleasure or comfort in doing what am I currently doing, I will forever produce the results I am getting.

Same goes for how if I continue to link pain or discomfort to doing something different, which is outside of my comfort zone, the higher the chances of me continuing getting the results I am currently getting.

Solution:

So it is a matter of changing what I link to pleasure and what I link to pain so to get things going.

For example

With regards to pain…

– how painful is it for me now not getting the results I want?

– what am I losing out on because of my current behavior?

– who that I love is suffering because of my results?

– how is it affecting me now financially, emotionally, physically and spiritually?

– how worse will it be for me 5 years from now, 10 years from now, or 20?

With regards to pleasure…

– how pleasurable and awesome would it be for me if I DID get the results I wanted?

– what would I gain from the new and exciting rewards from my joyful results?

– who that I love will be benefiting from my new and improving results?

– how will I gain financially, emotionally, physically and spiritually?

– how much more better will it be for me 5 years from now? 10 years from today? Or in 20 years time?

I love you.

Thank you.

– Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Sometimes the Hardest Things in Life are the Most Simple to Change

@TheUltimateMuse: I didn’t fail the test. I just found 100 ways to do it wrong.
– Benjamin Franklin

So I guess I’m finding ways that don’t work for me with the crappy sales week I had.

Maybe that’s a good thing.

That I suck in sales?

…Nah man I guess you can’t be doing the same things and expecting different results.

And boy have I NOT been getting the results I’ve been wanting lately hey.

Aint that some shit.

…I guess it’s not rocket since after all.

If you want different results, take different actions.

Until you get the right results from these different actions…

It’s All In The Mind

You know, I did have a tough day today.

Usually I can keep it masked, but today the agony showed.

I was in what Tony Robbins calls a ‘disappointed state’

Something I promised my sales coach I will never be in because sales is a mental game.

Even if I’m on zero sales even after most of my day is spent, things will turn around…but only if I change and control my thoughts.

And guess what, after consulting with the right people AND never feeling sorry for myself, I eventually pulled through and broke through my mental barrier.

Hence me going home now with one sale instead of a doughnut.

The unexpected coaching and complements was a nice touch.

I’m deeply grateful.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

The Less Things You Take Personally The More You Can Grow Spiritually

You are not your physical self you are your spiritual self.

And when you starve yourself spiritually, you will feel it in your body & life experiences & circumstances.

Meditation will help you understand this more clearly.

When you “remove” yourself mentally from your physical discomfort and past thoughts that cause you pain, you then allow yourself to remember who you really are.

You are a Spiritual being with a Physical body.

Nothing can touch the Spirit.

You are Free.

You are Joy.

You are Love.

You are everything that is good.

At your core.

At your Center.

When you focus on everything outside of yourself you are not in alignment with your Center.

It is when you focus on everything inside you that you are in communion with your Center.

You are at your most happiest when you are in harmonious alignment with your Center.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

The 5 Step System to Getting You What You Want!!

Yesterday I forget to suggest you get one of the best goal achieving systems you can ever get for yourself.

I wonder if you’ve seen me referring to it before…

It’s by Dr. Joe Vitale?

What’s the deal with this success program by one of the teachers from The Secret you ask?

It’s based on the 5 easy steps system to creating wealth and success in your life from one of his books The Attractor Factor – See Amazon.com for more details.

You can see all of the powerful 5 steps when you Click Here!

Once you have downloaded the recordings they will go into more in-depth details about these amazing steps, revealing to you more secrets of the happiness and success that the majority of us aren’t aware of.

On top of it all, you can have these recordings playing over and over and over again in the background at your convenience while doing something else if you like.

“Repetition is the mother of all learning.”
~ Anthony Robbins

I thought this was a brilliant way to bring to life the New Year’s resolutions (or goals for the year) your declared for yourself at the beginning of the year…you still remember those don’t you?

What better way for you to stay COMMITTED to your goals than to have a daily “coach” with you, for you to “consult” anytime and anywhere for YOUR convenience.

“A teacher teaches but a great coach is forever.” ~
Phil Knight

How many times have you stopped going at your goals because you lacked the motivation and inspiration to keep the momentum going?

That’s why I feel these recordings are ideal for you and your success, happiness and improved physical health.

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I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele