The Tighter The Grip The More Painful The Experience

So how are you feeling right now?

Angry.

Upset.

Sad.

Speechless.

Disappointment.

Frustrated.

Hurt.

Weak.

Overwhelmed.

…Wow. If I felt all that at the same time I would be overwhelmed too.

How does that make you feel feeling all the way you do?

Like I’m not in control of my results.

Ok…now based on what you know and blog about even over at blogspot how true is that?

…It’s of course an incorrect definition of what I’m experiencing but I can’t deny I’m feeling FANTASTIC when I aint.

You’re quite right about that one. As optimistic as we would like to be, sometimes we need to call a spade a spade right?

That’s for damn sure!

Indeed. But I’m sure you would agree that if what you focus on expands, how much more of the negative things will you come up with if your focus is ON the negatives? A lot more isn’t it?

…Ja sure.

How much better would you feel if you were to take your focus and momentum OFF what you don’t want – because I’m certain you don’t want things to remain as they are since they aren’t getting you any where – and ON to the things you DO want?

Ja man but it’s not easy man!

Yeah because you’ve gotten so used to feeling hurt that you’ve become loyal to pain than you are of pleasure?

You feel you don’t deserve to feel pleasure so you would rather feel pain because that’s a feeling you are more familiar with? As in that is your comfort zone?

Just because you’re nothing speaking to me doesn’t mean I can’t read your thoughts ne?

I guess I’ve hit a nerve so for publishing purposes slowly…and gently let go of the pain you are feeling right now – as frightening as letting go may seem to you right now – and share your thoughts with Me…

…I feel safer in the pain.

I know. This is because pain has protected you in the pass right? I mean why get rid of something that works right?

…But it’s not working.

And why is that?

Because things don’t go my way at the end of the day.

Is it? Ok. So how can we begin to change things so that they turn around for us?

By beginning to let go of limited self image I have for myself and reaching over to a better self concept of myself.

Even if I fall at least I would have tried.

Because holding on to my old self is costing me in money and emotionally and physically…

Always ask: ‘What is this I am feeling?’

‘Could I accept it and allow it?’

‘Could I let this go?’

‘Would I let this go?’

‘When?’

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When You Feel Good You Do Good #TeamFeelGood

“To know and not to do is not to know”
~ Wang Yangming

I’ve been playing this audio program called Your Wish Is Your Command and I also about to finish reading Jerry & Esther Hicks’ The Astonishing Power of Emotions which have ideas and principles that complement each other.

A brilliant set of motivational material that I highly recommend you get for yourself.

The principle that seemed to hit home for me, especially after listening to the audios every day, was how:

when you feel bad you are thinking about something you don’t want.

And,

when you feel good you are thinking about something you do want.

Basically these success tips keep saying that you should use your emotions as a kind of guiding system, to help you better manage your mood, and therefore your thoughts.

If you feel bad that means you’re thinking negative thoughts that, if persisted in, will attract negative people and circumstances.

If you feel good that means you’re thinking positive thoughts that, if persisted in, will attract positive people and circumstances.

So when you deliberately work on improving and selecting better thoughts you also improve your emotions.

And when you work on vibrating improved thoughts and improved emotions then you will attract to yourself improved life experiences.

This is you activating the Law of Attraction which states that you attract to yourself the essence of what you are thinking and feeling.

So I catch myself feeling neither good nor bad, or what you call just feeling neutral, I then take that as a sign to work on improving my emotional state.

I need to work on deliberately being in a powerful (positive) attracting state of vibration (mood).

Being neutral or negative won’t cut it.

Just because it’s normal to be negative doesn’t make it natural.

We only live in a negative world based on what you choose to focus on.

Ignoring the bad won’t make it go away.

But choosing to focus on the bad only makes it grow stronger.

Energy grows where attention goes.

Libraries, the Internet and stores have many tools that you can use to best improve your mood.

It’s a matter of doing your research & trying them out to see which one works for you.

Always remember, faith without works is dead.

What you don’t use, you lose.

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

PS: To get you started, you can check out these quotes by the Original Teachers of the Law of Attraction over » HERE.

Ever Felt the Indescribable Joy & Inner Peace that Comes With “Freedom Tapping” Your Limiting Thoughts Away?

You could say I’ve been working the bugs out of my system.

And then eagerly taking advantage of the opportunities that come my way as a result.

Negative thoughts – be them via negative past experiences or beliefs – counteract your positive intentions.

They will continue to do so until they are released by you.

& one of the ways you can do this for yourself is by tapping them out of your system.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

PS: Did you know that you have about 2500-3300 thoughts an hour??

It’s unbelievable!

Read more about this HERE.

Never Go to Bed With an Angry Heart

Try this:

Step #1. Think about someone that upsets you.

Step #2. Now think about the positive things you have observed about them…

If you where like me Step #2 needed some really haaard thinking.

Since it’s easier for you to find fault in someone that has hurt you in some way, than it is for you to find something you can appreciate about them.

If this is the case for you then part of your work is to source out the positive aspects of that person.

Write a list of the positive aspects about the person (or event) that is causing you to feel temporary discomfort.

Since you can’t change or control other people your best bet is to change or control yourself.

To change how you view them.

Perception is everything.

It was once said that it is not what the other person does that hurts us, but how we respond to it.

And once you’ve identified someone as the source of your discomfort, they have power over you.

You are in their pocket.

They get to play you like a puppet master.

I’ve been there.

And I don’t want that for you.

You need to take your power back by looking for positive aspects about them.

And bless them.

And praise them.

And appreciate them.

Even if you have to do it with a grin.

Then you will slowly but surely get your power back.

It was yours to give away in the first place therefore it is yours to get back.

Genuinely love your enemies.

This includes forgiving them too.

Not for their sake.

But for yours.

“Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.”

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele.

PS: Yours in EFT & Joyful Attraction.

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I wonder if you’ve seen me referring to it before…

It’s by Dr. Joe Vitale?

What’s the deal with this success program by one of the teachers from The Secret you ask?

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“Repetition is the mother of all learning.”
~ Anthony Robbins

I thought this was a brilliant way to bring to life the New Year’s resolutions (or goals for the year) your declared for yourself at the beginning of the year…you still remember those don’t you?

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I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

The Saturday “tapping” story that frees you from negative feelings

What does one write about on Saturdays?

Should I write about the lessons I learned from the burglary that happened to us on Tuesday?

How about the teachings from the huge loss by my favourite soccer team to a “small” team this evening?

Or how best to handle rejection from someone you are emotionally invested in.

How best to deal with hurt?

Because as ideal as it would be for you to act all happy & jolly when negative events happen, most of us aren’t evolved to that level…not yet any way.

So in most cases when you come back home to a house burgled into, negative emotions are sure to hit you from all sides.

Hurt.

Humiliation.

Sadness.

Anger.

Depression.

Frustration.

Your just immediately get into this negative state change nje…

As expected, you wouldn’t be in the best of moods at that time.

And it’s completely acceptable to want to vent or curl up in a corner and cry your eyes out.

Grieving.

A process I believe should NEVER be skipped.

But what strategy should you implement on yourself to motivate you into taking positive steps forward towards rehabilitation?

Try EFT.

I did.

In fact, I am ☺

You should try it too.

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

PS: Emotional Freedom Technique, EFT, use it to free up the negative energy that is blocking you from getting back to your natural state of positivity.

Yes it’s unconventional, but sometimes you need new solutions to old problems.

PPS: I’m still pissed, but waaaay better than Tuesday, thanks to EFT.

Thank You

Yesterday’s post was a good one.

And whether you follow this blog or you just happen to be reading it right now, I just want to say a big heart-felt Thank You to you!

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I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele