Raise Your Standards.
If you don’t ask much from yourself.
Then you will keep getting what you keep getting.
This guy I know, he wrote that the one thing he clearly remembered that helped him change from being a janitor to a multimillionaire businessman, was that he raised he standards.
He expected more from himself.
So there are things that I used to do, in the spirit of pleasing others.
But now I don’t.
There are people out there who believe they need to be placed in pedestals.
An idea that they have people around them promote. Thinking that we all dance to their fiddle.
Not all of us do.
Don’t allow people to turn you into a person that begs for their approval.
Some people, because you love them, will have you feeling small and use emotional blackmail that will have you crawling on your knees as a price for them to welcome you back in their arms.
Because you are emotionally invested, the indecency alludes you.
But one day, you eyes will be wide opened.
Maybe that day will come when you start raising your standards.