You Need to Be Ok With Yourself First Before Everything Else Can Be Ok

I’m sorry.

Please forgive.

Thank you.

I love you.

These words are part of a sacred Hawaiian Prayer written about in Dr. Hew Len’s & Dr. Joe Vitale’s Zero Limits

It is said that when you repeatedly say these words they some how clean away hurt, pain, negativity in your life.


Just saying a few words “cleans” away negativity in your life?


The cleaning happens within you.

Since you attract everything in your life, it only makes sense that you are the result of everything in your life.

So anything that needs healing in the world means the healing should be within yourself solely.

And once you heal yourself then the world heals.

It might not make logical sense to you.

But it makes complete spiritual sense.

As soon as you get your hands on Zero Limits I’m sure you’ll get what I mean.

I’m sorry.

Please forgive.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

PS: When you get the chance, check out their website that “cleans” as you view it over @

Never Go to Bed With an Angry Heart

Try this:

Step #1. Think about someone that upsets you.

Step #2. Now think about the positive things you have observed about them…

If you where like me Step #2 needed some really haaard thinking.

Since it’s easier for you to find fault in someone that has hurt you in some way, than it is for you to find something you can appreciate about them.

If this is the case for you then part of your work is to source out the positive aspects of that person.

Write a list of the positive aspects about the person (or event) that is causing you to feel temporary discomfort.

Since you can’t change or control other people your best bet is to change or control yourself.

To change how you view them.

Perception is everything.

It was once said that it is not what the other person does that hurts us, but how we respond to it.

And once you’ve identified someone as the source of your discomfort, they have power over you.

You are in their pocket.

They get to play you like a puppet master.

I’ve been there.

And I don’t want that for you.

You need to take your power back by looking for positive aspects about them.

And bless them.

And praise them.

And appreciate them.

Even if you have to do it with a grin.

Then you will slowly but surely get your power back.

It was yours to give away in the first place therefore it is yours to get back.

Genuinely love your enemies.

This includes forgiving them too.

Not for their sake.

But for yours.

“Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.”

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele.

PS: Yours in EFT & Joyful Attraction.

The 5 Step System to Getting You What You Want!!

Yesterday I forget to suggest you get one of the best goal achieving systems you can ever get for yourself.

I wonder if you’ve seen me referring to it before…

It’s by Dr. Joe Vitale?

What’s the deal with this success program by one of the teachers from The Secret you ask?

It’s based on the 5 easy steps system to creating wealth and success in your life from one of his books The Attractor Factor – See for more details.

You can see all of the powerful 5 steps when you Click Here!

Once you have downloaded the recordings they will go into more in-depth details about these amazing steps, revealing to you more secrets of the happiness and success that the majority of us aren’t aware of.

On top of it all, you can have these recordings playing over and over and over again in the background at your convenience while doing something else if you like.

“Repetition is the mother of all learning.”
~ Anthony Robbins

I thought this was a brilliant way to bring to life the New Year’s resolutions (or goals for the year) your declared for yourself at the beginning of the year…you still remember those don’t you?

What better way for you to stay COMMITTED to your goals than to have a daily “coach” with you, for you to “consult” anytime and anywhere for YOUR convenience.

“A teacher teaches but a great coach is forever.” ~
Phil Knight

How many times have you stopped going at your goals because you lacked the motivation and inspiration to keep the momentum going?

That’s why I feel these recordings are ideal for you and your success, happiness and improved physical health.

It even has a 100% Iron-Clad Money-Back Guarantee.

Go to: Attract A New Car! By Joe Vitale

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

The Saturday “tapping” story that frees you from negative feelings

What does one write about on Saturdays?

Should I write about the lessons I learned from the burglary that happened to us on Tuesday?

How about the teachings from the huge loss by my favourite soccer team to a “small” team this evening?

Or how best to handle rejection from someone you are emotionally invested in.

How best to deal with hurt?

Because as ideal as it would be for you to act all happy & jolly when negative events happen, most of us aren’t evolved to that level…not yet any way.

So in most cases when you come back home to a house burgled into, negative emotions are sure to hit you from all sides.







Your just immediately get into this negative state change nje…

As expected, you wouldn’t be in the best of moods at that time.

And it’s completely acceptable to want to vent or curl up in a corner and cry your eyes out.


A process I believe should NEVER be skipped.

But what strategy should you implement on yourself to motivate you into taking positive steps forward towards rehabilitation?

Try EFT.

I did.

In fact, I am ☺

You should try it too.

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

PS: Emotional Freedom Technique, EFT, use it to free up the negative energy that is blocking you from getting back to your natural state of positivity.

Yes it’s unconventional, but sometimes you need new solutions to old problems.

PPS: I’m still pissed, but waaaay better than Tuesday, thanks to EFT.

Thank You

Yesterday’s post was a good one.

And whether you follow this blog or you just happen to be reading it right now, I just want to say a big heart-felt Thank You to you!

To show my gratitude, kindly accept the following free gift from Dr. Joe Vitale, an entrepreneur who shares his secrets to success every chance he gets, read here for more.

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I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

The Liebster Blog Award

What is a Liebster Blog Award?

First of all I would like to thank Khushbo over @ lifealight for the Liebster Blog Award!

Think of a Liebster Blog Award like being tagged on let’s say Facebook.

And once you get tagged and complete the Liebster Blog Award Rules then you tag someone else.

When you tag someone, this is known as giving that person an award or, just like Kushbo did to me, a nomination.

So the only prize you win from what I could tell is fellow blogger recognition.

Expanding your praise and appreciation for blogs you love and want to share with others.

Who started it?

Your guess is as good as mine.

A lot of pages claim that it was started by someone from Germany.

Probably since “Liebster” is German for “Dearest” amonst other definitions.

What’s the rules?

#1. Post 11 things about yourself.

#2. Answer the questions given to you by the nominator.

#3. Nominate 11 blogs (newer, up and coming blogs, with less than (or thereabouts) 200 followers) and inform them.

#4. Compose 11 new questions for your nominees.

#5. And don’t forget to post of the Liebster Award Badge to your page (grab it from the internet)

11 Random Facts About Musawenkosi:

#1. I have an awesome baby sister.

#2. I was born in 1984.

#3. I rate movie trailers better than the actual movie.

#4. SpongeBob is the best cartoon ever.

#5. I prefer beef or steak over chicken.

#6. I still live with my mom.

#7. I don’t think marriage is for all of us.

#8. I don’t like raisins in my chocolate anything.

#9. I love food more than sex.

#10. Scary movies make me scared because they are scary.

#11. The majority of my blogs & article were written on my BlackBerry.

11 Questions from Nominator:

#1. If you were awarded one wish, what would you ask for? (Anything.)

Answer: For my baby sister to be a multi billionaire!

#2. Do you have a hobby? What is it?

Answer: Writing!

#3. What made you want to write a blog?

Answer: To have a place where I can share the self help tips I’ve come across with others.

#4. If you had the power to change only ONE of these three things which would you change? (Poverty, Racism, War)

Answer: Poverty

#5. If you could write a book would it be Fiction, Science Fiction, a True Story or Philosophy?

Answer: a True Story fictional science fiction philosophy!

#6. What was an embarrassing moment in your life?

Answer: When I ran and slipped on the kitchen floor in front of my aunt. Still working on getting back my street cred till now!

#7. Who is the most inspirational person in your life?

Answer: My cousin, Nombali Ntuli

#8. What is your favorite movie?

Answer: I have so many #1s but I’ll pick “The Usual Suspects.”

#9. What is your favorite music band?

Answer: The Soil [Watch YouTube VID]

#10. What’s the song stuck in your head? (No you don’t have to like it, but its there and we both know it!)

Answer: I usually make up songs in my head and nod to them. But I would say the most dominate is “Elevators” by Outkast

#11. Would you ever run for President?

Answer: Of my own company, yes 😀

Musa’s 11 Nominees:






#6. « Surely has more than 2k followers

#7. « Another over 2k blogger



#10. « Has waaaaay over a 2k following.


Could Your Unlimited Success Really Be at the Tip of Your Fingers?

“If you want to develop yourself, you have to invest in yourself. Be it in time or money. I suggest you be open minded to investing in both.”

It’s amazing how what I’m currently reading about tapping has a direct link to one of the goal achieving recordings put on this page for your instant download.

This just made it more clearer to me that you could be doing all the things that are necessary for you to achieve your goals.

Only to find that you have self limiting beliefs within you that are pushing away the goal that you are working towards.

Tapping or EFT attempts to release these beliefs that block your ability to attract.

And once you have achieved a better free flowing energy system within you, the faster you can receive whatever meaningful objective you desire.

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

You Will Never Experince Positive Things By Feeling Negative Feelings

You can’t be reading in-depth things like news articles or forwarded emails that make you feel bad & then turn around & expect positive things in your life.

You can’t be involved in conversations full of negativity and then acting all surprised when positive things don’t come your way.

Never fool yourself into thinking that when you feel negative feelings you can expect positive results.

You are breaking the Law of Cause & Effect when you think that way.

When you feel bad for a long enough time you attract the bad.

When you feel good for a long enough time you attract the good.

Sometimes the negativity you feel can’t be helped.

But surrounding yourself with negative people and negative stories or things only makes the negativity you might be feeling at the time bigger.

Eliminate or at least limit the things that make you feel bad…and increase the things that make you feel good.

And one of the things that could make you feel good is this EFT thing.

I wrote about it here.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

The Incredible Two Finger Tapping Technique to a Happier You!

They call it tapping.

When you use your index and middle fingers to literally tap on different points of your body to release negative emotions you might be feeling at the time.

It is said that when you feel bad that means you have “energy blocks” that need to be unblocked by you tapping on them.

I’m actually going through their tutorial right now.

Go to EFT Tutorial.

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Why You Get More of What You Are Against

“What you focus on grows stronger.”

When you are against something, you invite more opportunities for you to be against it.

Thereby defeating your objective.

Because when you are against a particular politician or an evil of sorts, you are in a state where you send out signals to the Universe to bring in more evidence or people or events that will intensify your pushing against it.

So in effect what you would be attracting is more situations for you to experience more of what is unwanted, in order for you to go against it more.

When you go against, that which you are against grows…the more you go against…the more that which you are against grows.

A downward spiral of cause & effect.

The more you push against something unwanted, the more the unwanted pushes against you.

You attract the essence of what you feel.

“Energy flows where attention goes.”

It is no wonder Mother Teresa was quoted to have said.“I will never attend an anti-war rally; if you have a peace rally, invite me.”

This is because, just like Dr. Carl Jung uncovered, “What you resist will persist.”

Pushing against what you don’t what makes it grow stronger because that’s where all of you attention goes.

And where all your attention is, is where all your energy flows.

I’m not suggesting you bottle up all your emotions on something that makes you feel bad.

I’m just bringing to your attention that if your end objective is wanting this unwanted thing to end, then joining rallies in support against it will have the reverse effect.

But if you’re really serious about wanting to have positive effect in your environment instead of being an indirect promoter of the things you don’t want, then you need to go to the source of it all.

The process of “cleaning” and “clearing” the unwanted in your life begins within.

I’m sorry.

Please forgive me.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

PS: In order for you to master the events that occur around you in your life experience, you need to come to terms that everything, good or bad, are projections that originate from you.

And for you to experience cleaner life results and events, you first need to clean and clear the cause of it all.


For you to better understand what was written in the blog above, you need to hear more of what Dr. Joe Vitale and Dr. Ihaleakala Hew Len have to say about this goal achieving technique.

So that you too can live a life of Zero Limits!