Make up your own mind.
Because if you are busy waiting around for other people to make up their mind for you then you are at the mercy of their decisions.
Saying, “I’ll wait & see what someone else thinks of this before I decide” puts control of your life in someone else hand.
It also makes you a dependent thinker.
You become someone who cannot think for themselves.
Leaving you in a state of paralysis when decisions have to be made with no one around to help you make the “right” one.
There IS no “right” decision.
Right or wrong the decision you make contributes towards your personal development.
The scars you will get from the “wrong” decisions, once you’ve learned from them, now make you an Experienced Decision Maker.
Keep at it.
You need to TRUST in the process.
It’s as how Sam put it in this brilliant update, nobody started out great.
But they did start.
And they kept at it.
Learning from their mistakes.
Appreciating their successes.
This forward momentum led them to becoming the giants they are today.
So have as many advisors as you would care to have.
But always make up YOUR mind at the end of the day.
Here’s to you having an independent thinking 2013.
Thank you for taking the time to reading these updates.
& I love you for that.
Happy New Year!!
~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele