The Hidden Concept Behind How Other People’s Actions Affect How You Feel


“Do you ever find yourself getting frustrated or angry with the actions of others?

Whatever you see when you evaluate other people, is a projection of what is inside of you.

When you find yourself thinking, “I wish she could make a firm decision” it is an indication of your own frustration at not being able to make a decision.

In order to recognize something in others, you must first have it within yourself.

Think about it.

Is there something that makes you particularly angry?


Look inside yourself for the source of this anger.

Even if you could change the behaviour of others, it would not resolve your feelings.

You are the only one who can change the way you feel. Trying to run away by blaming others will only prolong the problem and make it worse.

The really good news is that this “mirror” has a positive side to it.

The inspiring, uplifting things you see in other people are in you as well.

When you see in others such things as compassion, genius, beauty, caring and affection, you’re seeing a projection of yourself.

You see these things because they are a part of you.

The source of your thoughts and feelings about other people, about things, about situations, is you.

When you see darkness, it is your darkness.

When you see beauty, it is your own beauty.

Grasp this concept, and you can change your world.”

I am expansively grateful to the Universe for effortless delivering to me this article for me to absorb, reflect so to pay it forward & and return it back to the abundant Universe to I am but a physical extension of.

(c) Musa Tshoaele, 2010

How To Deliberately Engineer Desirable Life Experiences: Abraham-Hicks Teachings

What follows was presented by one of the masters that in Esther Hicks also found within this webpage here.

“Regarding your creation of your own life experience, there really is only one important question for you to ask:

How can I bring myself into vibrational alignment with the desires that my experience has produced?

And the answer is simple:

Pay attention to the way you feel, and deliberately choose thoughts – about everything – that feel good to you when you think them.”

~ Ask and It Is Given by Jerry & Esther Hicks

How The Power Of Focus Can Make You Feel Joy, Right NOW!

Finding joy in (enjoy) the now because this eliminates regret from the past and the worry of the future. Focus on the gift of the present. Find joy in what you are doing now – breathing included.

I love “good vibe” emotion boosters and made a mental note to that when I encounter one I should jot it down somewhere so I can pull it out of the hat, so to speak, and act on it – baby I keep doing that and I will end up having a website full of practical principles of “feel goodness” for me to share & use.

Joy is perception, much like anger; love; worry; faith; doubt; prosperity and etc.

So as I type this out from the comfort of my phone this morning – oh that reminds me: “I AM SO HAPPY AND GRATEFUL FOR THIS SILVER BLACKBERRY CURVE WITH UNLIMITED INTERNET ACCESS AND DOWNLOADS THAT I AM ABUNDANTLY RECEIVING, EFFORTLESSLY & JOYFULLY!!” – I can either choose to do this with uncontrolled focus or control it in finding joy in whatever it is I am doing now.

Thank you for finding joy in reading this emotion booster of an update – I am so happy and grateful for the expansive & various forms of love and success you are joyfully receiving.

Yours in profound gratitude,

(c) Musawenkosi Tshoaele