“Don’t Die With Your Music Still In You” ~ @DrWayneWDyer

Just a bit bummed about the passing of the good Dr Wanye Dyer.

But after counseling with my #joy @Phetheni we came to the understanding that he played his part in this world.

And it’s up to us to pay forward his teachings to leave where ever we are better than how we found it.

“Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change.” – Wayne Dyer

I love you.

Thank you.

– Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Fight or Flight

Have you ever wanted something so bad that when it gets to be only centimetres away from you that you become too scared to take it?

When the fight or flight response takes over.

Having to decide whether to run away from it or to fight for what you want.

That internal conflict within you that you find comfort in because of how it leads to you doing anything.

The inaction that has brought you to where you are right now.

Where now you are at the crossroads of your life once again where you have to ask yourself which step to take next…

One of relief,









Or do you stay in your current state, hoping – like you have been for the past 5 years – for the change to come.

Change that will never come until you change.

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

You Don’t Have To Feel Like It, You Just Have To Do It

You know the thing that excites me the most about affirmations is the science behind it.

When the Word becomes Flesh.

How repeated, emotional, written affirmations attracts the things you want for yourself in your life.

I don’t know how it works.

Books have been written about it trying to explain it but it just IS.

Like gravity.

I think it’s because of it’s unquestionable effectiveness that I have stop working it…

The fear of success.

Maybe it’s because I tell myself that I don’t deserve the things I write down and affirm to myself daily.

Then when I do receive, because this daily principle if practiced long enough works whether you believe in it or not, a part of me rejects it.

Think that’s why I need to listen to more of these business support CD audios I keep getting, and attend more functions just to instill belief.

Just writing that and letting it all hang out like that made me pause for a moment.

Because you can tell yourself you need to do something but up until it is done then there will be no desired changes in your life.

James 2:26

What you see in your mind and say with your mouth and follow through with your actions will deliberately create the life you want to live.

I love you.

I’m sorry.

Please forgive me.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

“Dig the Well Before You Drink the Water”

Don’t know if it gets to you too but I find it upsetting how you get people out there who throw dirt and talk smack about other people’s dreams.

Overhead this girl saying she got herself a learners driver sign for her car, while at the same time this same girl didn’t have a car in the first place.

Her friend replied on how dumb that was.

“I mean shouldn’t you have the car first before you have the accessories?”

…okay come to think of it that does make more sense, but sometimes you need to do wild things like that to keep you going.

To keep you focused and to remind you daily on what you want to achieve for yourself.

What the learner driver girl was doing, unconsciously I would assume…or maybe I’m just hating, was making the goal an emotional one.

Something I am only now getting to understand its true meaning as a method of fast tracking reaching my goals.

So have the path laid out first in your head, before you walk on it.

But you need to make it an emotional path.

To play that video you play in your mind with such vividness and clarity, it’s as if you have the thing you want already here…with younow.

Because speaking out of experience that’s how I attracted my first car in the first place…keeping it was another story all together more on that on another post.

Cleared out the back of my mom’s place so that the space can be used for parking.

I had a picture of it on the computer desktop so that every time I was on my work pc I kept on bumping into it every time I switched programmes.

I drove my car in my mind every day even before I had one in my hands.

You should never stop believing no matter the noise you might hear from other people’s insecurities about your drive to succeed in something that will improve your life.

Life is too short for you to play small because of you not wanting to make people around you uncomfortable.

So it’s important to act in pursuit of your desired end result.

Like this successful business builder I listen to via audio CD put it: “dig the well before you drink the water… ”

…sounds like a Zig Ziglar quote come to think of it.

Point of the matter, do whatever it takes to keep your dream alive.

No matter what anyone says about how “realistic” you should be.

Even if it means acting in a small way right to remind you daily and inspire you on ways you can take to bring you closer to your goal.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

PS. The same “dumb” girl is now driving her brand new car with a relieved learners driver sign at the back window.

Never stop believing.

The Four Seasons

She lives in a different season than me

She blows summer kisses to me that get frozen by my winter mornings

The Love I make with her falls away like autumn leaves

Before it reaches her soul by the time spring blossoms

She lives in a different season than me

But why then does she feel so close to me

– Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Journal About My Almost Mid-Life Crisis

What I love about BlackBerry – you know, the old ‘Berrys with the QWERTY keypads – is the feeling of the buttons underneath my thumbs.

Reminds me of those old “Tetris” handheld consoles during your GameBoys era.


Should have used PSP instead of GameBoy some people won’t be able to relate.

Feeling nostalgic this afternoon.

As I said my goodbyes to a friend.

I would like to call him a friend.

Something I wasn’t too conscious about ever since I started the business.

In fact on a similar business model before this one, I used rapport for financial gains more than anything else.

But now it’s different.

I really enjoy people… I say that like it’s an achievement.

Especially like-minded oaks to help me when I’m down.

But people, some, can be awful at times, it usually spoils the view I have for the rest of them.

I speak like I’m an alien, separate from the human species, but like ja sometimes I feel that’s the case.

But it’s really nice when you meet someone who as a positive outlook.

Who laughs about life’s struggles but chooses to focus on making the best of things instead of bitching about them.

Not to denounce bitching, it has miraculous delightful benefits, but if that’s your only point view then life will continue to sucks for you.

‘Mean if being negative is your dominant reference point, life then for you is going to BE just that… Negative.

Since that is what you think with your thoughts, you affirm with your words and follow through with your actions.

That’s why I liked listening to some motivational CD a day.

A 15 min positive and/or instructive and/or motivation and/or inspiring read a day also does the trick too.

Come to think of it things are incredibly, sickly tough right now maybe it’s because of not practicing these simple daily principles on the daily.

Staying with the Mrs who I promised to marry while my wages can’t even take care of myself.

Only to have her being unexpectedly retrenched, she’s throwing the book to those fuckers by the way, leading to the creditors hounding her and the repo man gunning for her car.

What kind of a man am I to let my woman suffer like that?

Such very inspiring self talks I am told by my mentors to avoid having.

But on the flip side there’s a lot to be grateful for.

Even though there’s not much flexibility in our choices.

But I always says it’s only temporary.

Here I am trying to tell her that everything that is happening is bringing us closer to our goals…with nothing to show for it.

Which is true.

But it’s not her truth.

But I am grateful for choice.

As bad as things are, someone out there would give their left ball to live in what I call struggle.

The opportunities I have right now that I am taking for granted would drive someone else out there up the wall.

That’s why injecting the day with some form of positivity day in and day out will eventually train my mind to see these opportunities and allow me to capitalize on them.

“For every failure, there is an equal and opposite success.”

It’s just a matter of looking, intentionally for it.

“Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened..”

I’m sorry.

Please forgive me.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Raising Your Standards Changes Your Reality

In his book Awaken The Giant Within, Mr Anthony Robbins mentioned how I should raise my standards as part of the process of changing my life for the better.

A point I am beginning to agree with especially with the stench I have to endure on most mornings when I pass through Bree Taxi Rank.

One of two of the major transportation hubs in Johannesburg that offers commutters public transport to various destinations.

It didn’t use to bother me much, the stench of piss, decay, litter, ponds of sewerage I need to skip over…now that I think about it…it should have…

But now that I am reaching a point in my life when things are slowing down and take the time to take in my environment,  I’m getting picky with some of the things my mind gets exposed to.

I am changing what I used to see as acceptable.

And I will work on taking charge of more things in my life and being deliberate on what I exposed myself on a regular basis.

Bree not being one of them.

I am sorry.

Please forgive me.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele